I don’t mean that coaches are Gods, obviously not, most of us are really down to earth creatures 😉 I just want to say that it takes two to make the magic happen, the coachee and the coach are both committed to a common success.
A coach is not going to “Fix” anything in a couple of sessions, but he/she is going to be by your side while you’re fixing yourself. You’ll be provided with a careful ear, tips to move forward, accountability, and great support in any circumstances. But YOU will lose the extra weight, increase the family income, clean the house, start the new business or find love, thanks to your efforts.YOU will be the superhero in the end.
In the personal development field, most people deeply believe in the law of attraction and the power of affirmations, and that’s great. I am all for thinking that “The Universe has my back” too. I also believe that meditating is certainly the best way to connect to your true self, and to other’s vibrations. But without taking actions related to your goals, you are unlikely to succeed. Wishing is not enough.
If you feel you are ready to step up and head to the next level, ask yourself : "Where do I want to be in 6 months, 5 years?" , and since every major life transition requires social support : "Who is going to help me reach that goal?"
And finally... take the first step toward this ideal destination of yours asap, help yourself, you deserve it!